The Secret Life of a Mistress......

Most woman have always wondered why other woman would date or sleep with a man that is married or that is in a relationship. What type of thoughts goes through their minds knowing that this man has a wife or girlfriend at home. I assumed that maybe they didn't care because clearly he does not give a shit what he has at home. But, as a woman why would you cause that kind of pain and heartbreak to another woman and possibly their children. You would have to be a pretty selfish woman to not care at all. So, does it become about the money, is it about sex or just what you can get out of it.

So, my question to you is,  what do you think a mistress get's out of disrespecting another mans wife or girlfriend. What could they possibly benefit from it.

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Affair's of the heart......

Today's post I had to research and make sure that I had accurate information. For year's, the question for woman has been "Why Men Cheat ". Especially when they have a beautiful family at home or just in a great relationship. But from researching this topic ,you would be surprised on how things has changed. It's always been assumed that men are more likely to cheat than woman. Based on my research of 3 different article's, 60%-70% of men cheat on their wives or girlfriends. But 50%-60% of woman cheat also. So, that question all woman across the world  from Alaska to Maryland, can no longer be so quick to judge men. Woman have literally started showing their ass.Another fact that  I found out that 56% of men stated that they cheated even when they were happy in their relationship.34% of woman did also. So again, no clear reason why men and woman cheat. Another survey was done to find out if men and woman would cheat if they knew they would get away with it. 74% of men said they would,63% of woman would also. I must say, researching this topic depressed me. We get married because we found love, and that we have found the person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. So, where is that love or that respect when men or woman are out their cheating? I have never been married, engaged yes, but was smart enough to call it two months before our wedding date. I don't want to marry just to say I'm married. I want a man that is going to love me completely, honor the vows we took. This also goes for men and woman in relationships trying to get to married.

So this brings me to ask you this.....

If you were out and saw your buddy's girl out with another man, or your best friends boyfriend out with another woman, would you tell them? Better yet, would you directly approach them?

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Articles:
Truth about Deception
Infidelity Statistics by Rebecca Lake
Fox News Magazine